1) Blaming everyone around us for our failures
There are some people who try to blame others for their failure in order to satisfy themselves. This thing can become a cause of making them a loser. For example, if a student is not able to pass the university entrance exam, then instead of preparing, he blames that he can’t enter in the university because he doesn’t have enough money like the other students. On the other hand, if a worker is not able to get a bonus due to the low performance, then he blames his boss that he provides a bonus to his relatives and sycophants only.
2) Giving up on our goals and principles
The goal is the name of an object of the ambitions of a person. A clear goal provides a roadmap to the people in order to get the desired results. No doubt, if you want to achieve your goal, then you will have to face some difficulties. There are some people who change their goals when they will have to come across these difficulties. This habit can also make them losers.
3) Lack of communication skills
If we want to get success in our life, then our communication skills should be impressive. Its reason is that these communication skills are not only helpful to us during our academic career but these communication skills are also helpful to us during our professional career. The lack of communication skills can also make a person loser.
It is a fact that the successful people are well-organized and they try to complete their tasks before the deadline. The delaying or the postponing action of a person is known as procrastinating. Due to procrastination, a person tries to delay such a task which is necessary to complete within a given interval of time. The procrastinating can also make a person loser.
5) Being jealous and vilifying others
It is a fact that the losers usually have jealousy nature. Due to this jealousy nature, they never try to take anything in a positive manner. They try to take all the things in a negative manner. For example, if they see a rich person, then they think that he has become rich because he is a thief. If they see a couple who is spending a happy life, then they think that they are spending a happy life because they know how to conceal their cheatings.